Thursday, November 6, 2008

Pull Me Down.. ^_^

Which do you prefer, your own perceptions or from the people around you? Well, if I were to answer that question, I prefer my own. Of course, at the age of 15, you already know how to think what is right and what is wrong. However, believing your own perceptions doesn't mean that you are not open-minded. You still listen to what other person's points are and learn from it.
Sometimes, others just say their perceptions just to pull you down. Are you willing to accept those and be down? Well, you have your own mind and you know where you stand. In my situation, I always say that I'm cute (sometimes, that is just for fun..). People around me say I'm not, but not all. There are still some who knows how to appreciate God's creation (nyahaha!). However, I just laugh at those people who throw negative comments to me. Who are they to pull me down? Somebody told me that I also have to listen on what others say because it can be true. Well, I said, "I listen to what others say and what their comments are, but I know whether what they are talking can pull me down or not and besides, I know where I stand..". When I can sense that what they are saying can be full of wisdom and interesting, I listen to them especially if they are not trying to pull me down. However, if what they are saying are negative and I think that it won't do good to me, then why bother listen, right? It's just a waste of time! Well, if it is negative then you think you can learn from that negative, that comment is worth listening. You have to accept that negative side of yours and be open for changes. Those people who tell you negative for you to change are the ones who are concern about you, so treasure them! Those people in the other hand who tells negative to you without any benefit from it are haters who are trying to pull you down, so ignore them, why keep the ones who are worth throwing, right? They are just people under you, they pull you down because they think you are three or more steps higher than them. Don't be affected to what they say because those could just be lies. If you show to them that they are triumphant in pulling you down, then don't expect those haters to stop you because they will continue throwing those negative and will be happy to see you down and helpless. You yourself know what is right! So, why bother believing in what they say if you know it can only pull you down and sad?

Those could be some things you need to reflect on if you feel like your haters pull you down. Forget them and mind your own business. Its better than to sit in the corner and think about what they said that you know is wrong. Well, we can't force people to think the way we think. That's their own perceptions too. So, DON'T LET OTHERS PULL YOU DOWN! Just stand up and say, "thank you haters, you're just making me FAMOUS!"

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